It’s not uncommon for couples to experience a lull in their marriage as the years go by, but there are ways to reignite the spark and bring back the passion. Here are five tips to help reignite the spark in your marriage:
Communicate: Communication is key in any relationship, and it’s essential to talk about your feelings and desires with your partner. Talk about your relationship and how you feel about it, discuss your expectations, your love languages and future goals. Open and honest communication does not burn bridges but rather strengthens a union. Remember that communication includes listening to understand rather than listening to respond. Don’t forgot to talk about your sexual expectations, wellness and remember that Lushka is here for your bedroom escapades.
Date Nights: Schedule regular date nights to spend quality time together and try new things. Whether it’s going out to dinner, taking a cooking class, or seeing a movie, planning regular dates can help keep the spark alive and keep you connected on a personal level. Date does not have to be expensive but it does need to be just the two of you, more often than not (this means NO kids or family). A couple of hours in a week, dedicated solely to the most important person in your life, is not a big ask. And who knows, getting home to some steamy love-making, is always a good idea.
Try New Things together: Learning something together can be a fun way to connect and reignite the spark in your marriage. Consider taking a dance class, trying a new hobby or working out together. Having more things in common will prevent you from feeling disconnected and add more common ground to your union. Try to make it something that both of you can be really interested in so that one partner does not feel forced or burdened by the activity.
Show Affection: Small acts of affection can go a long way in strengthening your bond with your partner. Hold hands, hug, kiss, and cuddle. These small gestures can help create a sense of intimacy and rekindle the passion in your marriage.
Practice Gratitude: Focus on the positive aspects of your relationship and express gratitude for and to your partner. Take the time to appreciate the things they do for you and let them know how much you value them.
Reigniting the spark in your marriage takes effort and commitment, but it is worth it to strengthen your bond and bring back the passion. Lushka is here to enhance your sexual wellness and ease the sexual tension in your relationship.
1. Be Safe: The combination of water and soap can make the shower floor or bathtub slippery, so be sure to take safety precautions. Use a non-slip bath mat and hold onto something sturdy for balance. And please, make keep the soap away from the vagina – we don’t like upsetting the yoni’s P.H balance.
2. Use Lube: Water can wash away natural lubrication, making penetration uncomfortable. Use Lushka’s JOI, a silicone lubricant enhance sensation and make sex more comfortable. JOI is ideal because it is a silicone based lubricant which means that it doesn’t wash off as easily as your natural moisture or as water-based lubricant – ensuring guaranteed enjoyment.
3. Experiment with Positions: Shower sex can be challenging due to the limited space and slippery surfaces. Try experimenting with different positions like standing facing each other, one partner sitting on the edge of the tub or sitting on the floor.
4. Play with Temperature: The sensation of warm water on your skin can be incredibly sensual, try adjusting the temperature to create different sensations and levels of intimacy but please, don’t burn.
5. Keep It Simple: Remember, shower sex can be challenging, so keep it simple. Focus on touching, kissing, and exploring each other’s bodies rather than complicated positions.
In conclusion, shower sex can be a fun and exciting way to explore your sexual desires, but it’s important to take safety precautions, use JOI SILICONE LUBE, experiment with positions, play with temperature and keep it simple. As with any sexual activity, communication and consent are essential for a satisfying experience. Don’t forget to lock the door.
It is common knowledge that all human beings experience chafing over their lifetime.
Chafing refers to the irritation of skin caused by repetitive friction, usually generated through skin to skin contact of multiple body parts (Wikipedia).
It has been scientifically proven that 1 in every 5 people experience chafing. Most people are not informed that chafing can be prevented.
The common causes of chafing are:
Sweating (Exercise)
Are you a gym lover? Or do you pull of a 10km run every morning before going to work or school?
When you engage in vigorous activity chances of chafing are increased due to increased friction when you sweat, the moist skin is more prone to damage.
Salt crystals form when sweat evaporates, adding grit that can cause more friction and chafing.
A chafed area becomes painful, As the skin becomes soft and tender it becomes damaged causing pain and discomfort.
The type of clothes you wear
Certain clothes provide a thin film or layer that allows your body parts to consistently rub against each other. Examples include thin leggings, trousers, skirts and shorts. Hours or periods in such clothing can result in chafing. Clothing chafing also extends to the cuts you experience when wearing a bra, prone to women with larger breasts. Possible solution to this is wearing thick breathable clothing or changing clothes on regular intervals. But why limit your fashion style when the solution to your problem is at your fingertips?
Exposure to heat and humidity
Heat and humidity are anyone’s worst enemy when it comes to chaffing. This is a common problem during the hot summers and more humid months of the year. When this happens, the skin gets irritated because of constant friction. The constant accumulation of sweat fuels this effect.
How to solve it
Possible solutions to prevent chafing include using baby powder, petroleum jelly or wearing wick free clothing or the all-time favourite tights under dresses. These solutions have a number of limitations, they require constant reapplication, limit your sense of freedom and fashion.
At Lushka, we believe that when it comes to preventing chafing, you need more than the traditional methods. This is why we created Lushka’s Anti Chafe (purchase details below)
Our cream creates a semi-permeable membrane on your skin to protect it from chafing and blistering. It’s specially formulated ingredients prevent your skin from rubbing against each other, therefore reducing the risk of chafe-causing friction. It’s non-greasy, easy to apply, and lasts for hours.
It has been tested under the harshest of conditions: trialled by ultra-marathon runners during the comrades marathon, used during the Limpopo summers, used in the humid conditions of Dar es Salaam and Durban. Simply put, wearing tights under you dress is a thing of the past!